Career Advice

How to Stop Feeling Intimidated By Your Boss

Auxsy 14 July, 2021

It's normal to feel a little intimidated by your boss at first because of his or her authority. However, it might be something you need to address in more depth if it causes you to have performance or attendance issues. You can use these three tips to lower the level of intimidation you feel regarding your boss:

Remember Your Boss Is Human

The first thing you need to remember is that your boss is a human just like you are. Your boss gets dressed the same way you do, bleeds the same color, and has the same struggles. A supervisor is not a superhero. He or she is simply a person who has a little bit more authority in the workplace than you do. The two of you are supposed to work together toward a common goal, which is to benefit your employer.

Try to Figure out What Intimidates You

You may want to take some time to try to figure out what it is about the boss that intimidates you. It might be something that relates to your childhood or another negative past experience. If that's the case, your level of intimidation will decrease after you resolve that issue. Alternatively, maybe your boss has spoken to you in a way that you feel is unacceptable. Maybe your boss humiliated you or otherwise disrespected you. You can sometimes resolve a situation like that by having a meeting with your boss and another supervisor who can sit in on the meeting. You can also report the issue to HR if you've already tried to resolve it with no success.

Try to Break the Ice

It's possible that your boss has an intimidating facial expression or rarely smiles. Maybe that makes you feel intimidated by that person. It won't hurt to try to take some steps to break the ice. You might try asking your boss how he or she is feeling or how his or her day is going. You may want to try telling a tasteful joke at an appropriate time as well.

Those are a few ways you can lower the level of intimidation you have for your boss. Try them and see how they work for you. You might find that you're able to see your boss in an entirely new light once you try the tips.